It's not that simple to just create a server and become successful in it, that's why so many people don't own a server. Hosting the server from your home is not so good idea, getting a dedicated server would be a lot better and stable, even tho it costs some money, it's worth it. Scripting is also something that not everybody can take up so easily and teaching somebody to script is long and stressful process.
It was a slight reality knock for you. Good luck tho!
