On the issue of flaming, it takes two to tango
. If your arguring with someone, regardless of the circumstances, you argue back and it becomes a flaming war. So what some random noob probably about 3,000 miles away from you calls you a little migit prick, perhaps they're even racist? So what, get on with it. I used to drive round, DB some1, they go mad, they call me all these pathetic names, I say: "Yhyh I agree" or "kk" or "sure" and that's the end of that, I couldn't give a toss about them so why give them my attention, they don't deserve it. Eventually you learn to just get on play your own game, and if people are pissing you off because they're disturbing you, work your way round it.